Define the moment…

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I have been thinking about this from a long time.
And this , has proved 100% right for me at all occasions.

There are many awkward moments in life.
I would tell you in brief, But there are a lot!

Like,
You were hearing a friend of yours saying that his wife is pregnant or he got a job,
And suddenly you get a phone call from another friend about demise of his mother

Or

You find yourself in a fix… when you have to talk about your life with a person you never met in a long long time

Or

You were talking about a secret to your friend,
But 4 friends of yours were talking to you at the same time
and you by mistake,
Typed the secret to a girl classmate!
And you find out the next day when she talks to you in the class…

These are just a few… that I observed.

We don’t think these things affect us.
But it is a poison to the psychology of other person about our nature…

So, I think,
When you have nothing to talk about…
Accept your mistake, if there is

Or

Define the moment

Define, that you will talk to the friend about job but not right now…
You have to go to the other one, at demise of his mother

Define, that we haven’t talked to each other in a long time so its awkward to talk about the things that are similar to us…

Define to your classmate that you were talking to 4 people at once and you were unaware of the fact, that you were telling her, not your friend!

Define that you are feeling awkward!

May be, these people like your raw honesty…
May be your way of starting the conversation…
And somehow if they care, they will understand

So whenever you feel awkward,
Don’t chicken out!

Just be vocal about the situation…
Define the moment…

Just a suggestion
If you feel like trying, go ahead… ๐Ÿ™‚

Love wins over hate! :-)

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And This theory my friends,
is eternal…
And the most profoundย thing about this feeling ๐Ÿ™‚

I think,
When you love someone, Merge in completely…
You sometimes find no reason, even in heavy times;
You question yourself!
Why do you love that person?
This is a hopeless question but
In answer you still don’t wish for a clear no… ๐Ÿ™‚

But hate,
It always has a reason!
Some ‘Attitude’ or Some old fight whose wounds still hurt you.

And one thingย that I understand,
And we all need to remember is that,

‘We can get rid of hate, because we can remove its reason…
But how are gonna wipe out a feeling that has no roots at all!’ย 

Do you have some other logics?
Why love wins over hate…
I would love to get them in comments… ๐Ÿ™‚

Have a good day buddies!
Keep on learning with me.

One of them…

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Its not easy all the times,
To carry the same love for all
For the ones, You don’t hope to be with.

But you have to understand…
We all are here for nothing but love…

Tell me One good reason, Why you are here!

Before sending you here, there was no other mission…Other goal
And its suffice to say, All that god expects from us,
Is learning to survive hate,
Turning it into love.

And believe me,
These people might be so full…
that hate would be brimming out of their tongue, their actions and almost everything…

But they too carry a human in their bones.
They just put on layers of hate
They just pretend they are rock hearted!

You received flowers at your birth,
And you will receive them…
on the doom day,
People will yearn! for the tenderness you had,
For your love
And this I make you very sure,
These people that show hate…would be one of them ๐Ÿ™‚

in Kiev February 25, 2014. REUTERS/Konstantin Chernichkin (UKRAINE)

Keep loving,
Have a good day buddies ๐Ÿ™‚

The levels of life…

I see two ways, people live a life.

1. Being contended.

Just keep your happiness, sorrows and other feelings under your pillow! just keep them to yourself…sounds boring?

Well, there are people who live this same way, but they enjoy it! (And you don’t have to choose a life people advise you, or want you to live… its your life! If you say yes to others, make sure you don’t say no to yourself!)ย 

These people are too quite! you know…kind of ‘Black holes’. They might carry a universe within… and believe me, you will never know anything! Sometimes, their character is a mystery, something to be discovered…

They would stay balanced whole the time. They will control their tears in the ‘ grey times ‘ย  and in the good times of life, you will find that their celebration lies in being calm…

They try to stay away from the people who openly share there privacy too. In simple words I say ‘Extroverts’
But this is also a truth that sometimes, criticizing the lifestyle of extroverts, keep on turning their simplicity into narrow mindedness, this is the slipshod side of this character.

But again, the best side of this living state is that when they are given a close look or observed to depth, some of them are ‘ Silent genius!’ They will stagger your senses, when they will present their colours.

On the other side,

I am talking about
2. ‘Extreme people’.

They would love extremely, hate extremely, you will find their tears making water bodies! and in good times, they would laugh and spend like they are the richest person alive! Their nerves are stuffed with ‘ euphoria ‘.
They live on the theory that they have got one life to do everything.ย 
Each day they live, they think of it as last!ย 


I divide this state of living to three classes.

Class 1 – ‘Low level of extremists’

They would stir their nervousness to excitement.
Their little level of fun and madness would allure you.
The times you will feel terrible about a condition, they will enjoy it!
These are great at managing life conditions.

Class 2 – ‘Balanced level of extremists’

They are just more of low level of extremists. They are always found wishing for some more and nothing but some more!
They will amaze you with the way they handle the opportunities you keep in front of them. I mean, if they will even propose you, They will show like they fell from a roof, and when you would reach to see down…you will find them floating in air! asking you to be their life! They are the ones who i think, make best with introverts. They will open them, if given a chance.

Class 3 – ‘Extreme level of extremists’

This is the black side of extreme. I mean okay, you want to live but you don’t have to be a ‘Psycho’. This is the class of psychos. These are the people who often are found in rape cases and crimes etc. But I think –

If the sides can hear their caliber,
Both can produce ultrasounds!

I am a contended person who sometimes love to touch the line of infinity in the life of limits… ๐Ÿ™‚

Basically, I am – Contended + Balanced extremist + Some unique that lies just in being me

So, what lifestyle do you have?

I would love to know and understand.

Give words to it…

Thank you… ๐Ÿ™‚

Live every part…

I have seen people talking in old days like –

‘This is the time, God should just call me to himself…’

They hate to reach the age of second childhood and loose pants!

I don’t know if i am gonna suffer in those days of my life.

But this has never been my theory…

I want to live on my words

‘I want to listen what pain has to say

With every happiness i wanna sway,

I am just a lucky source to this journey,

Let this life proceed its way…’

And i want to make you friends and readers think for once…

That, whole life,

we try to make children smile,

And when we’ll get old,

We’ll have to make no amendments to make them smile and laugh…

even our little stupidities would do the job!

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Aim is still the same, but it needs a genius to understand the flow of life towards it…

So, don’t sneeze out any part of life,

Be that genius,

Be thankful… ๐Ÿ™‚