Make the odds go even…

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How odd is it inside me…
And for you its just words!

How odd is that!
Everyone can not feel the euphoria running in your veins
Everyone can not listen to the beats that freak you out …
or the lyrics that define your life

How odd is that!

Because you are forced to believe that you might…
Have this ‘Alexithymia’ sticking to your tongue!

But may be… just may be

We also don’t understand people to the extent of their feelings!
And there is nothing bad about that.

Because we can only know the things
But understand only when it occurs to our life…

So…
let some mysteries and magics linger only in between you and your life

Understand this musing,
And you can always make the odds go even…
Have a good life! 🙂

Define the moment…

Group of successful executives at a business conference

I have been thinking about this from a long time.
And this , has proved 100% right for me at all occasions.

There are many awkward moments in life.
I would tell you in brief, But there are a lot!

Like,
You were hearing a friend of yours saying that his wife is pregnant or he got a job,
And suddenly you get a phone call from another friend about demise of his mother

Or

You find yourself in a fix… when you have to talk about your life with a person you never met in a long long time

Or

You were talking about a secret to your friend,
But 4 friends of yours were talking to you at the same time
and you by mistake,
Typed the secret to a girl classmate!
And you find out the next day when she talks to you in the class…

These are just a few… that I observed.

We don’t think these things affect us.
But it is a poison to the psychology of other person about our nature…

So, I think,
When you have nothing to talk about…
Accept your mistake, if there is

Or

Define the moment

Define, that you will talk to the friend about job but not right now…
You have to go to the other one, at demise of his mother

Define, that we haven’t talked to each other in a long time so its awkward to talk about the things that are similar to us…

Define to your classmate that you were talking to 4 people at once and you were unaware of the fact, that you were telling her, not your friend!

Define that you are feeling awkward!

May be, these people like your raw honesty…
May be your way of starting the conversation…
And somehow if they care, they will understand

So whenever you feel awkward,
Don’t chicken out!

Just be vocal about the situation…
Define the moment…

Just a suggestion
If you feel like trying, go ahead… 🙂