Define the moment…

Group of successful executives at a business conference

I have been thinking about this from a long time.
And this , has proved 100% right for me at all occasions.

There are many awkward moments in life.
I would tell you in brief, But there are a lot!

You were hearing a friend of yours saying that his wife is pregnant or he got a job,
And suddenly you get a phone call from another friend about demise of his mother


You find yourself in a fix… when you have to talk about your life with a person you never met in a long long time


You were talking about a secret to your friend,
But 4 friends of yours were talking to you at the same time
and you by mistake,
Typed the secret to a girl classmate!
And you find out the next day when she talks to you in the class…

These are just a few… that I observed.

We don’t think these things affect us.
But it is a poison to the psychology of other person about our nature…

So, I think,
When you have nothing to talk about…
Accept your mistake, if there is


Define the moment

Define, that you will talk to the friend about job but not right now…
You have to go to the other one, at demise of his mother

Define, that we haven’t talked to each other in a long time so its awkward to talk about the things that are similar to us…

Define to your classmate that you were talking to 4 people at once and you were unaware of the fact, that you were telling her, not your friend!

Define that you are feeling awkward!

May be, these people like your raw honesty…
May be your way of starting the conversation…
And somehow if they care, they will understand

So whenever you feel awkward,
Don’t chicken out!

Just be vocal about the situation…
Define the moment…

Just a suggestion
If you feel like trying, go ahead… 🙂


Before the time steals…

Your pen is bleeding with the words you are afraid to vocal to her.

I have seen you praying for her at times she thinks that she can not even crawl close to the life she hopes…
I have observed you wishing for her more than life in moments you cover your head with headphones and your heart with lyrics of your favorite song. 😦

And now as i have heard that a body radiates what it is full of…
You are full of love for her and the radiation of your love has somehow opened the gates of her heart that once thought that it would never be accepted by anyone. She has fallen in love with you.

No! No my friend, Don’t run away from commitments! You will never get someone like her again.
She is utterly beautiful at heart. Everything about her is just too humane that deserves love and a man who is ready to fight for the scars she carries.

You are not doing this harm to her, but more to yourself… Because I know one thing for sure…
People die! In search of mutual feelings. They die in the hope that someday they will meet someone who is just perfect for the match of their frequency. Love is what she has taught to all us friends. Don’t be a rock! Man you have a heart.

Not much time is left, She is slipping out from your hands and time will carry her again to a new place. She is leaving the country today. Go man! When you love her, Don’t be scared of any commitment. The love is leaking through her eyes… When you have come this far, Why not you give this story an ending what it deserves.

Go man! This time,Its not the diary that wants to listen to you. Its her. Leave the diary and go catch her. She feels the same for you too.


Let the phenomenons crash! and the fears suffer in trash!

Hold her tight and kiss her.
Tell her…how worthy she is.
What she means to you…
What metaphors she add to the lines you write
What reality she bestows to the poet in you 

Make her realize that she is someone, God sent to be loved!
Go! before time steals her from you. 🙂